Resources
There is so much to discover about gender creative parenting! Kyl has curated a selection of resources to help you get started (or continue) on your lifelong gender journey. You’ll find some of Kyl’s favorite books, websites, and articles and media from other advocates.
The internet can absolutely be your educational friend. Kyl recommends searching for terms like ‘gender open’ ‘gender expansive’ and ‘gender autonomous’ in addition to ‘gender creative parenting.’
If you know of a fantastic resource that Kyl should share, please submit it to hello@kylmyers.com
Happy Exploring!
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Books For Grown Ups*
The Gender Creative Child - Pathways for Nurturing and Supporting Children Who Live Outside Gender Boxes
by Dr. Diane Ehrensaft
Books For Kids*
A House for Everyone - A Story to Help Children Learn about Gender Identity and Gender Expression
by Jo Hirst
Instagram Accounts
Explore hashtags #gendercreative #genderopen #genderexpansive #theyby #nonbinary
General Information
Resources, and support for gender diverse kids, their families, educators and professionals:
Gender Spectrum works to create gender sensitive and inclusive environments for all children and teens.
Gender Odyssey is an international conference focused on the needs and interests of transgender and gender diverse children of all ages, their families and supporters, and the professionals who serve them.
GLSEN’s mission is to ensure that every member of every school community is valued and respected regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression.
If seeking therapy or medical treatment, I strongly recommend finding a licensed therapist or provider who explicitly states they specialize and have training in LGBTQIA+ AFFIRMING care.
Resources and stories from Gender Creative Parenting advocates
(also called Gender Open Parenting; Gender Autonomous Parenting; and Gender Expansive Parenting):
Tiffany Cook
Twitter: TiffanyECook
Instagram: TiffanyECook
TiffanyECook@gmail.com
Raising Baby Grey - short documentary
Nate and Julia Sharp
nate.and.julia.sharpe@gmail.com
Answer about Gender Neutral Parenting on Quora
Article and short video on NBC News
Radio Interview on WBUR On Point
Kori Doty
Article about not assigning a gender to their child in The Guardian
Jay + Miguel
Carly Sargent-Knudson
Instagram: @cknudme
cmknudson@gmail.com
Short video for Non-Binary Awareness Week on Pink News
Adinne
Instagram: @theyby_parenting
theybyparenting@gmail.com
Website Resource about Gender Open Parenting:
Ari Not Sorry
Article about Ari and their family on Mamamia
Facebook group
Parenting Theybies Facebook Group for parents who use they/them pronouns for children from birth